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| Wednesday, May 12, 2010 |
| Love, Life, Etc |
Well to talk of an entirely different genre.Love is a quite complex subject which many claim to have mastered.However very few people in the world lead totally satisfying love lives.The reason can somewhere down the line be attributed to the fact that the wishes and aspirations of both the participants is somewhat different.Whereas males generally want a sense of security, some kind of leash that is not too tight but which can hold them tight towards their loved ones.
Love is a feeling that strikes when it is least expected to.You have hardly seen a person who says that he expected to fall in love with a particular girl.The joy in being in love is primarily the mental and emotional satisfaction one partner lends to another.When you are in a dilemma or you want a shoulder to cry on or you want a helping hand you get that.
Now you may ask so where is the stumbling block when love carries so many advantages.Primarily the reason why it is so good is the reason why most break-ups happen.When you expect a shoulder to cry on you become possessive of that shoulder refusing to lend it to anyone even relatives.No one knows whether that’s a bad thing.But it happens and that is the reality.
Here comes the catch.How do you balance your partner’s expectations with your wishes.Where are the lines drawn?Or are they at all?Can personal lives be separated from your shared life?Is it feasible?Is it desirable?
Here the understanding and the bond between partners is tested to the hilt.Your partner is not your sibling.He was not brought up with you.He may have been brought up in a different manner than you.But that shouldn’t stop you from respecting each other’s sentiments.Respect each other’s views.This is the first and sole guiding principle for a happy and successful love life.Labels: aditya |
posted by Sachin Shresta @ 5/12/2010 01:44:00 PM  |
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